Here are some pictures of the finished deck!

Looking out the new door:

Looking at the new door from the outside. This is the covered area right out the door. On the left is the privacy screen. We have a child gate here, so that Calix can play safely right outside the kitchen door, and I can watch him!

Calix’s window:

Mama’s coffee nook:

Looking at the east end of the deck:

Looking back from the east end of the deck:

Looking back toward the house from the stairs. The pole keeps you from bonking your head on some low eaves:

Views from the deck:

Going down the stairs to the back yard:

One fancy post cap:

Colin’s chin-up bar:

The deck has been coming along famously in the last couple of months. Here are some pictures from the process.

Digging holes for the feet:

Cutting rebar to reinforce the cement footing into the earth:

Pouring the footings for the posts:

Framing going up:

Decking being laid, and posts for railings going up:

Awning installed, window removed, hole for door being cut:

The door, waiting to be installed:

My temporarily super-crowded-but-protected kitchen:

A working door from the kitchen to the deck!:

Well, I guess I must have taking-care-of-Calix down to feeling pretty manageable, because recently the project management and design parts of my brain have been getting itchy. After casting about a bit for a project, I decided to tackle a dream of ours to build a deck.

If you’ve ever been to our house, you know that we have a pretty ginormous back yard, and we don’t make very good use of it. Meanwhile, the path it takes to go from the house to the back yard is a bit circuitous and ends up requiring just enough activation energy that we rarely do it, even after buying some cheap lawn furniture. My dream has been to build a deck that has an entrance right off of the kitchen.

We’re really lucky that Colin’s brother Owen is a knows-how-to-do-everything and does-it-well kind of guy, and he happened to be available to take on the construction job. He was alsokind enough to spend time looking at the house and talking with me about the goals and some of the potential caveats for the deck.

I spent a lot of time on the deck design, using one of my favorite software programs – OmniGraffle. The first step was to take a bunch of measurements of the outside of the house. A very useful feature of OmniGraffle for this projet was the ability to set a scale for each canvas. So, I could say that my scale was 1 inch = 5 feet, and then I could enter all of my measurements exactly as they were, and they were scaled appropriately for my 8.5 x 11 inch canvas.

Another helpful OmniGraffle feature was the idea of having master canvasses. I built one master canvas to model the area as viewed from above:

The house is on the top left, in black lines. Brown represents fences and other dividers, like railroad ties. In the upper center are steps coming down to the back yard. Covered steps go into the basement. Another set of steps at the bottom of the picture goes to the next tiered section of the back yard. These steps are flanked with trees and a boulder garden area.

The second master canvas models the view when standing in the back yard, looking at the back of the house.

Here you can see the placement of the critical windows. The windows with the best views are the kitchen window on the top left, and the basement office window on the bottom left. Unfortunately, the basement window will probably be partially obscured by the deck, although we took a number of measures to keep the blockage minimal. The upper kitchen window will be replaced with a glass door.

(It would have been really nice to do this modeling using some true 3D design software. But after some investigations, I determined those packages to have too steep of a learning curve for my purposes. I’m very familiar with OmniGraffle from software project management, so I stuck with that.)

Once I had the master canvases modeling the existing house structure, I could design various decks on top of the masters. Since I ended up trying out about 20 different deck designs in the end, it was very useful to be able to tweak the master canvas and have it apply to each appropriate design.

Owen was great and spent a bunch of time going over my designs with me. In the end, we both came to one that seemed just right, and this is the one that is being built as I type!

Below is the view from above:

The kitchen window is replaced with a door, and you walk out from the kitchen onto a small platform with room for a chair. There is a plexiglass cover, so that you can sit on the platform sipping your coffee and watching the rain fall.

The first set of steps leads up to the main deck area. Turns out we had to elevate the deck to make it high enough to walk under. The main area has a built-in bench and enough space for a picnic table.

A single step from the main area leads up to a side extension could have a grill or just be used to throw water balloons onto people coming late to the party.

Steps go down to the back yard. The placement of the steps was one of Owen’s critical contributions to the design. He realized that you need to have a smooth flow between the steps coming to the back yard from the side of the house, the steps going down to the back yard, and the steps going up to the deck. I think the current placement works great.

The side view is below:

You can get a better idea of the levels here, and you can also just barely see Colin’s addition to the plan – a chin-up bar :).

The fencing is horizontal steel cables (Owen’s suggestion), which is going to be really nice because it is basically see-through from the deck to the back yard. On the neighbor-facing sides, there will be privacy fence.

I’m super excited about the plan, and it seems to be coming together well outside so far (well, just the footings are in the ground, but still)!

One time when I was fairly new to Washington, I was backpacking by myself out in the Olympic Peninsula. I kept hearing the strangest sound. I couldn’t figure out what it was, and my only guess was that there was something in the structure of my backpack rubbing against something else. I must’ve taken off my backpack and adjusted it about 4 times when I came around the corner and came face to face with something like this:

A blue grouse! I’ve since heard them a number of times when walking around in the forests in the fall (their call can be heard for miles). I always laugh to think of adjusting my backpack over and over again that first time.

You can hear the call at borealbirds.org

I haven’t looked at my xiebob dashboard in a while, but I just wandered over to see that one of the searches for finding my blog of late has been “how to eat a tranchla whole(no bites)”. Awesome.

Jessica, holding a tarantula

Jessica, holding a tarantula

We finally managed to get up a post announcing the birth of our child, who arrived on February 12. For more, see the Morula Logs – http://morulalogs.wordpress.com/.

Dawkins claims that his target audience for this book is the religious and and the agnostic. His goal for this audience is to make them realize that they have the option of rejecting religion. Unfortunately, I think it’s highly unlikely that anybody who is actually religious would make it more than a few chapters into this book.

Dawkins lays out great arguments for why he refuses to walk on eggshells around religious belief, for why faith shouldn’t be the only thing we exempt from the free discussion and disagreement we insist upon in every other area of our lives. However, our cultural conventions are such that we ARE used to people tiptoeing around belief, and if you’re trying specifically to get religious people to listen to your arguments for why atheism makes sense, it might not be the best time to treat their beliefs with scorn.

While I’m not Dawkins’ target audience, I found this book quiet valuable. As a prominent atheist, Dawkins has had exposure to every possible argument for God’s existence, and he is able to lay each of them out in turn and explain why he thinks they don’t work. Having thought hard about religion all my life, there was little that I hadn’t considered before reading the book, but having everything laid out in an organized, point-by-point fashion was certainly nothing I had seen before.

I found the book deteriorated a bit into random complaining at the end. Despite that, I think it’s well worth reading for anybody who can stomach Dawkins’ highly irreverent attitude about belief. Even those who can’t make it through the entire thing might want to read the section about WHY we shouldn’t have to treat faith so specially. The argument against holding faith in a place of respect is at least as important an idae to come from this book as the actual arguments for why it doesn’t make sense for God to exist.

We have gotten a ton of snow in the last week. It’s been hard to get around in but beautiful nonetheless. There was about a foot of snow when we woke up this morning. These pictures are from earlier, before another 4 inches or so of snow fell!

Yesterday, we went out skiing around the neighborhood, and it didn’t even feel like fake skiing. I was extremely careful not to fall, as I have been instructed not to by my midwives :). This made it kind of not as fun, but it was still awesome to be out there on skis in our own neighborhood.

For those who don’t know, Colin and I got married… a few months ago (uh, I don’t think I wrote down the date).

Marriage has never been something we’ve felt as emotionally important to us, and we already felt totally committed to each other (especially with a baby on the way!). But we decided to get married for a number of practical reasons. Basically, since Colin started his business in January and hasn’t been bringing in any income, it will make sense for us to file taxes jointly with me as the bread-winner this year. Secondly, we want the maximum protection we can have for our family now that little Calix will be joining us. Getting married makes things incredibly easy. Nobody will ever question what will happen if something were to happen to one or the other of us. Also, our finances are automatically jointly owned, so we don’t have to try to keep track of out of whose bank account we’re spending which expenses out or what will happen to the house I bought if something happens to me. And, it’s nice in some ways to think of ourselves as married.

This is all very convenient! And here is what we had to do. We had to go to a King County office near us on a Saturday and wait in a line with a bunch of other couples to get a marriage license. Then we had to not get married during the 3-day waiting period. Then we had to have a friend who had authority to perform marriages (by becoming a minister on the internet) and two witnesses around. We had to say “I take you to be my husband or wife.” Then we all had to sign a piece of paper and send it to King County by the United States Postal Service.

That’s it! That’s all there was to it. Colin and I have been together for over 6 years, but we could have done the same thing if we had just met. Our lives have become easier and safer in a lot of ways with that piece of paper.

But if anything, the ease with which we were able to execute the whole thing has made me even more seethingly upset about my sister’s situation. Here’s her story.

My sister and her partner have been together for about the same amount of time as Colin and I have been. On October 7, 2006, they had a beautiful wedding ceremony surrounded by a very fun wedding weekend. The whole family and many friends flew in to attend the festivities. My sister wore a gorgeous embroidered flowing white dress. A professional photographer took pictures. There was a fancy dinner and a big cake. It was a wedding.

Two years later, my sister and her partner have four-month-old twins! They balanced finances, planned the timing, and went through many getting-pregnant anxieties, just as Colin and I did. But the security and conveniences Colin and I got from a 5-minute signing and dropping of a piece of paper in the mail, my sister cannot have.

Everything is a comparatively huge struggle.

To use each other’s health insurance, they have to be lucky enough to be working for an employer who happens to offer domestic partnership benefits, or they have to have enough clout with their employer to convince them to do so.

In order for her partner to be considered a parent to their children, my sister has to give up parental rights to them, and then they both have to adopt the children. This involves a months-long engagement of a lawyer to deal with all of the paperwork. They hope to have this completed sometime next year. Lots of time and money.

Then there are all of the other papers and fees for having power of attorney and wills, and I don’t know what all else. And no matter how much money and time they pour into it all, they still will never have the situation that Colin and I do. Certainly, for example, they have no rights to any federal benefits such as filing taxes together now that my sister is staying home with the babies.

And as for security, they are always at risk of laws changing out from under them or homophobic family members challenging in court what they have set up for themselves.

Colin and I paid $64 to get married – the cost of the license. Everything is taken care of. Oh yeah, and $0.42 for the stamp.

I think the contrast between my sister’s situation and my own is a deplorable injustice in our country. I can only think that in future generations, our grandchildren will look back on this aspect of our times with shock and scorn. Until then, I suppose all we can do is to fight unfair ballot measures and bills and the people that support them, and to keep telling the stories of people like my sister, which point out this terrible inequality in our system.

Colin and I always take a weekend trip for our anniversary. This year, we almost ruled it out due to my back problems. But instead we decided to take a weekend at a cabin close to home.

We had an awesome time at the cozy little cabin in the woods north of Mount Rainier. The fall colors were beautiful.

On Saturday, we took a couple of short hikes to look at and photograph the tons and tons of mushrooms that were out. Then we spent pretty much the rest of the weekend just sitting around in the cabin cooking, playing games, feeling the baby kick, reading about Week 23, identifying mushrooms, and taking several hours to vote. And Colin brought us two fancy boxes of delicious chocolates, which we’ve been slowly savoring. It was just nice to be away from our normal routines and having a whole weekend dedicated to enjoying time together. Undoubtedly our last such trip without baby :).

Mammals

  • Douglas squirrel (Tamiasciurus douglasii) (hopefully we didn’t run one of them over)

Birds

  • House wren (Troglodytes aedon)

  • Raven

Mushrooms

  • Agaricus sp.
  • Chrysomphalina aurantiaca (aka Omphalina luteicolor)
  • Clavulina cristata
  • Clitocybe subsquamosa (now Infundibulicybe squamosa. who knew?)
  • Clitocybe spp.
  • Coprinus comatus

  • Cortinarius spp.
  • Crepidotus sp.
  • Cystoderma fallax
  • Cystoderma sp.

  • Floccularia albolanaripes

  • Galerina sp.
  • Gomphidius subroseus
  • Gymnopilus sapineus grp.
  • Gyromitra infula

  • Hygrocybe conica

  • Hygrophoropsis aurantiaca

  • Hygrophorus bakerensis
  • Inocybe albadisca
  • Inocybe lilacina
  • Inocybe pudica
  • Inocybe spp.

  • Laccaria bicolor
  • Laccaria lacata
  • Laccaria sp. (probably a very faded amethysteo-occidentalis)

  • Lactarius deliciosus

  • Lactarius luculentus
  • Lactarius pseudomucidus
  • Lepiota magnispora


  • Lepista nuda
  • Mitrula abietis

  • Mycena adonis

  • Mycena aurantiidisca
  • Mycena pura
  • Mycena spp.
  • Oligoporus caesius
  • Pholiota astragalina
  • Pholiota sp.
  • Pseudohydnum gelatinosum
  • Russula bicolor
  • Russula brevipes
  • Russula laurocerasi
  • Russula nigricans grp.

  • Russula rosacea


  • Russula spp.
  • Stropharia ambigua

  • Suillus caerulescens
  • Xerocomus zelleri (aka Boletus zelleri)

Plants

  • Western Red Cedar (Thuja plicata)
  • Douglas Fir (Pseudotsuga menziesii)
  • Hemlock
  • Cottonwood
  • Alder
  • Vine maple
  • Oregon Grape (Mahonia nervosa)
  • Sword Fern